Tuesday, January 25, 2011

and here i am again....

its monday peeps.
luscious.
sweet.
serenity.
monday.

lol.
kidding.

i actually worked from home today.
nice.
it was snowing and freezing, so imagine how nice to not have to go outside in that mess.

i finally just showered and straightened this mop. i have been in jammie mode all
flipping day.

i like working from home when it's cold out.
just sayin.....

so my cute little blend over at
posted a 30 day challenge....

and guess whatskis?
i think i want to partake.

i love randomness.
random information.
so i invite all of you to partake as well.
c'mon.
it
will
be
FUN!



soooo, DAY 1. lol...lol....lol....

well, technically i am single.
i have no rings on my fingers.
i have no piece of paper showing a wedded commitment.

however, many of you learned that i packed ALL....my crap up last month
and
moved
out.

however, in the last few weeks, the 'boy' who i commonly referred to as
the
'hubs' because we basically lived in sin (sorry, god....it is 2011)...for 5+yrs.

ugh.
what a mess.

but fastforward to the present day, like this very second and here i sit at our 
well, i guess it's his kitchen table and blog.

we are working on our relationship.
the sad part is that
this is
what
had
to happen to make a certain
someone
realize
what
they
had/have?!?

men.
can
anyone figure them out?

dont get me wrong. i am not an angel, nor do i claim to be one.
pretty darn close to it.

i am a pleaser and a giver.
i give my whole self.
it
makes
my
heart
feel
good
to
make
others
happy!

(hhhmmm..sure does sound like what an angel does, huh?!?)...lol.

do you get what i am saying tho? we all make mistakes. there are definitely
things
that
we
and i
REPEAT,
BOTH
need to
work
on!!!

i admit when i am wrong.

so with that being said, that, my loves is where my relationship status stands.

i want
a
big
fat
diamond.
damn it.

lol.
kidding.
sort of.

ok. not really.

but just saying.....someone needs to step up to the plate.....fo sho!

in keeping with the 'theme' of this post....lookie what i found over at



be in love with someone special, yourself, your job, your family.....

in the whole scheme of things, all that matters FIRST
is
if
YOU
are
HAPPY!

right now....

i am happy!

have a happy day!
xoxo
t




5 comments:

Missy Salsa said...

Hang in there. You're one tough cookie! If you ever wanna talk, feel free to email me. I've been with my bf 2 years, I couldn't imagine 5, but my "SIL" is at 7 with her man. She's got the ring, but no wedding date :(

Jamie @ Happy House, Happy Home said...

Good for you for doing what you had to do. I'm usually not the one who advocated ultimatums (which it doesnt sound like you did anyways), but sometimes, men need to know what they're about to lose in order to get a swift kick in the pants and get them back to where they need to be. I think every relationship goes through this at one time or another.

keep your head up, everything will work out the way its meant to.

kristin marie. said...

Everyone lives in sin now a days including myself hehe
so don't even worry about it!
Seems like boys nvr know what they want. Or if they do they are scared of commitment.

Hope everything gets fixed ♥

-kristin

simplyshaka said...

Hooray for you being happy! Reading all of this made me happy for you since you seem to be happy right now. Best of luck with everything....especially the big fat diamond ring!

Looking forward to more of your answers :)

Elizabeth said...

I was so happy to read this...sometimes we have to do what we have to do, you know?!

I am so happy you are on your way to finding happiness. And honestly, we all have faults - that's what makes life interesting. I'll be checking in on your challenge :)